Tuesday, May 27, 2008

A butterfly in my belly...


Well I have finally started feeling my little girl move around inside of me over the past few days. It started sometime last week and felt like a butterfly fluttering about. Every time she moves, and Hank is around, I try to see if he can feel her also. Well today he put his hand on my belly and she gave him a good kick right on his hand. She is still very breech which means her feet are down in the bottom of my stomach and her head is up high. She should be about the size of a barbie doll right now. I am almost 22 weeks and I can't wait to see her beautiful face. We have another Dr's appointment on the 6th of June, so pray all is well with our little girl!

Saturday, May 3, 2008

Our First Parenting Conference....

Hank and I attended McGregor's parenting conference this weekend. Now technically our child won't be here until early October, but I already feel like a parent, and education is never a bad thing. Richard Ross was amazing and he talked about being the spiritual champion to your children. He reiterated a point that I want to tell parents all the time, "It's not the church's job to raise Christian children, its the parents!" His words were very powerful as I am constantly thinking about bringing this new baby into the world. I want to be the kind of parent that cares more about my child's relationship to God than anything else. Hank and I also attended Russell Howard's break-out session. Russell was awesome and had us rolling several times in our hour with him. He talked a lot about how to handle punishment, but also about have a parent-centric house instead of a kid-centric house. He reminded us how important it was to put each other first and then our kids. Our final break-out session was with David and Tamar Miller. This was on surviving life with preschoolers. Many of the same points were made, but I really liked how the Miller's talked about not treating your children differently at home and at church. I can see how being in the ministry could cause you to be harder on your children at church, since you expect them to act a certain way, but I agree with David in that your children should have the same standards at home and at church. All in all a great weekend. I can't wait to start practicing some of these very practical guides with my family.